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 Respect will be given to those who give respect in return. Love will be shared with those who know how to share love in return. Time will be spent with those who know how to give quality time in return. Relationships are two sided, if both people are not contributing fairly, it's not worth the time or effort to try to make it work. 
Since I am always thinking and often on the go I have plenty of stories to tell. Some are serious, some funny, some sad and some outright gossipy. No matter which post you read, they are all very personal and I'm happy to share these experiences with you. Feel free to write in your thoughts on any of the posts. It's like reading my private diary. I apologize ahead of time for any inappropriate thoughts or behavior. LOL!
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Q: I'm ten years older than my daughter's father. I'm 31, I have an 8 month old beautiful little girl, but her father seems to be very insecure about our relationship. He doesn't trust me. He thinks when I'm at work that I'm cheating on him. I found out that he was writing to a young woman on Facebook . When I ask him he flipped out, mind you I have never done anything to make him think or assume that I'm cheating, yet he blames me for doing so. I'm not sure what to do anymore. I want to work it out for the sake of my baby but he's really getting me to the point where I want to leave. A: First off let me apologize for my delayed response to this question. My best friend just had a little baby girl so I have been busy helping her. Little daughters are such a bundle of joy and I'm sure you know that since you recently had one. As for your situation, if I were a parent the most important thing to me would be raising my child with integrity, respect and love. I would want to set an example that love is good and although relationships take work, with trust and a strong connection couple-hood can be wonderful. According to your story, you don't have this kind of partnership. He is doing shady stuff by contacting a young woman on Facebook. It seems he might be experimenting with/ or with the idea of cheating and then placing the focus and blame on you by insinuating that you are cheating. Living with an insecure man means living with someone who will always question what you are doing and why. He will need constant confirmation that you are all his. I get that you have never given him reason to believe you have strayed. That doesn't matter. In his head, you have that potential so it seems to me you are not trusted no matter how innocent you are. Leaving is a tough decision but I would consider it because constantly being blamed for something as big as cheating when you are not doing it is a huge red flag in a relationship. Now if he is amazing in every other aspect of your relationship, then maybe this area just needs a little nurturing or guidance from a therapist. However if it feels like it isn't right then trust your instincts. Walk away so you can find a loving man who will treat you with respect and set a much better example in front of your precious baby girl. |
