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 The only for sure thing in life is death so there should never be an excuse for not living life to the fullest. The clock is ticking, what are you waiting for?
Since I am always thinking and often on the go I have plenty of stories to tell. Some are serious, some funny, some sad and some outright gossipy. No matter which post you read, they are all very personal and I'm happy to share these experiences with you. Feel free to write in your thoughts on any of the posts. It's like reading my private diary. I apologize ahead of time for any inappropriate thoughts or behavior. LOL!
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Q: I just found out my mother-in-law told my husband that he should divorce me because I won't give him kids. Little does she know he doesn't want kids and neither do I which is why we are so good together. Why can't in-laws just mind their own business. I think he passes off the "no kids" thing on me to avoid the conflict with his mom but seriously?!?! I have been nothing but good to these people for the five years we have been married. Now that I'm in my thirties they obviously feel pressed for time and are pushing him to be with someone else as my fertility is running out. UGH!!!! What do I do? A: Oh do I know how you feel on this one. My parents and in-laws don't want us to break up like yours do, however I'm in my mid thirties with a man who doesn't want kids and neither do I. I know our decision is hard for them to relate to. What can you do? You can't please everyone and the way I see it is our parents should not have brought us into this world expecting grand-kids. That's pressure no child needs in life especially as an adult child who has the right to make their own decisions. The best you can do is understand that the in-laws are hurt. They had a vision of what their sons adult life would be and they have to accept something else. In time they will get over it and I simply ask that you be mature, understand their disappointment and stick to your guns on being a couple without children. Many people don't understand this choice but I do and at the end of the day all that matters is that you and your husband see eye to eye on this. Also, do ask that your hubby clarifies to his family that he is on board with not having children. He absolutely should extend that support to you in your relationship. Good luck! |
