Angelisms are random quotes or phrases that pop into my head and make perfect sense. Some are sweet and inspirational, others are downright naughty! They come to me often, sometimes at the supermarket, hanging with family and friends, jogging along the beach while I people watch (always entertaining), on vacation, sitting on the toilet (don't act like you have never had a brilliant thought on the pooper!), or simply driving around with all the horrible LA drivers. Some Angelisms come into fruition when I respond to people seeking advice. I keep a current Angelism on the homepage for you to view. They change often so keep checking them out. I think you will find these worth reading. If they speak to you directly feel free to post them as your screen saver or tape a note to your desk. Share them with your friends and family. Make use of them, they are wake-up calls, motivational reminders and comedic thoughts for all of us to enjoy.


Angelisms

Follow your heart always. If you feel something is not right then it's not right. Move on with your head held high, trusting that something better awaits.

It's not what your intention is behind your words, it's how people perceive them that matters.

Don't miss people who don't miss you!

Heal the wounds from your past and present so you can have a peaceful, enjoyable future.

Revenge is not always the answer, it may feel good in the moment but it usually makes things worse.

When someone shows you their true colors, believe them. Don't try to change the shade. Don't sugar coat what they do, or how they act. Pretending to be blind to their presence will only make your relationship worse.

Welcome critiques of your behavior, it's free therapy and the best way to learn about who you are.

If you are in a complicated relationship, un-complicate it. It's that easy.

For some people normal is not an option.

The past is my yesterday, I live for the gift of today and the hope for many beautiful and healthy tomorrows.

Guilt is a wasted emotion. The sender of guilt should be ashamed and the receiver should know that consuming it will damage the relationship, not enhance it. Always ignore guilt and move on.

The only answer to a problem is SOLUTION. If you have a problem or bump in the road immediately use your energy to find a solution or multiple solutions. Dwelling on the problem will get you nowhere.

All you can be is be who you are and know that is enough.

Not all problems can be solved on their own. Sometimes you have to reach out and ask for help. It's OK to be scared. With the right support group, anything is possible.

UNHEALTHY relationships spend a lot of time in REACTION mode, constantly battling and overreacting about anything and everything to get the other person’s attention. HEALTHY relationships spend the majority of their time in AWARENESS mode, focusing on what is being sent and received along with allowing things to soak in before reacting.

Always have a PLAN B. When life throws you curve balls, your relationship does not work out, or that job you love is no longer an option, know your next move. Life is a lot less scary when you know your next step.

Just because you change the cover of a book doesn't mean the story reads differently. Much like people, you can put on a new, changed face on the outside, but if you have not done the work to permanently change the story inside, people will read right through your falseness.

All we have is this moment, never take it for granted.

Givers must learn to say, "NO!" and set boundaries because takers rarely do.

Always have a SPARE room. SPARE ROOMS = DOG-HOUSE!!!

Always remember LOVE should FEEL GOOD. If that feeling is not there at least 90% of the time, move on.

Ask for what you want or get only what others are willing to give.

If you fall down, get back up. If you fall down again, get back up. Eventually if you practice this enough, you will fall less.

Trust is a must.

The most important friendship you will ever have is the one you have with yourself.


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